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First Dates: What Not To Do, If You Would Like Catch The Attention Of Women. - A Fantastic Guide To Learn More
Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I often get queries about how to attract women, or what to do to be able to attract women.

One common concern that men have is ways to avoid making those significant mistakes on the first date that prevents ever having a second date or making a sexual relationship (rather than a friendship). I will discuss a few of them on this page.

Well, there are several mistakes a man may make. Let me summarize the most common ones here.

The biggest mistakes guys make on first dates are:

1) Talking about themselves a lot. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.

2) Not asking questions and not listening enough.

3) Focusing excessively on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.

4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)

5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.

6) Not creating future. (A relationship is all about future.)

The initial mistake that most guys make is that they go on the first date and talk all about themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he's got this car, and he has got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is an excellent catch.

What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to look after her at all, because he is not thinking about her and does not listen to what she has to talk about. A bad relationship prospect.

Another way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they have to be interesting for a girl to be thinking about them. Sorry guys, but it doesn't work that way. You need to be keen on the girl, not interesting to get her attention. Did you ever see two interesting persons on a date. It's hilarious! They are both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in another.

If you don't know what I'm speaking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is interested in you? Or a girl who is letting you know how cool she is, how hot she really is, etc, and all kinds of other interesting things.

Interesting leads to many rejections and "platonic" friendships by the way. Girls will be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls like to be amused and entertained. Interesting guys are kind of like children to them. A source of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.

That is all we have room to discuss about here, but you can get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.

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